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Ways to Avoid the Agony of Holiday Shopping

When I was a child, I learned conflicting gifting skills from my parents. Here’s how I’ve tried to modify their methods to become more effective in how I shop today.

While I was growing up, I watched my mother shop for presents with an intensity that demonstrated long hours and an incredible commitment to find the perfect gift at the best price. Her process inevitably generated great results, but it must have been exhausting for her.

My father’s shopping style couldn’t have been more opposite. He picked up his gifts with a seemingly effortless flair. He’d walk into a store and pick up an item in what seemed like seconds. It was glorious to watch him in action. And they often seemed to be nifty presents… but not always.

As a kid who occasionally accompanied my parents while they shopped, I preferred my father’s methodology. But I saw my dad’s shopping success through the eyes of a child. You can’t just magically wait till the last minute, and waltz into a store to get exactly what you want. Or can you?

My mom never had the opportunity to apply her analog hunting and gathering strategies to online shopping. I think she would have enjoyed the opportunity to endlessly compare prices and sales. But as we all know, all that data can create a crippling shopping cycle where you never get to the finish line.

I am a product of both these shopping styles, and I carry the inherent burdens of both.

Fact Vs. Fiction
As you might expect, shopping during holiday seasons has been complex for me across the decades. I’ve instinctively applied certain shopping ideals that are usually impossible to follow.

  • Decide on the perfect gift
  • Perform exhaustive online research
  • But do it quickly
  • Find it on sale at the best price
  • Expect it to show up the next day at no extra cost if ordered online

Here’s a more realistic version.

  • It’s hard to find the perfect gift, unless you’re shopping for a requested item
  • Spotting the best price is also challenging, because discounts occur all year long
  • Taking tons of time to browse for gifts doesn’t always result in finding the right present
  • However, minimal effort is also a mediocre strategy
  • Shipping delays happen

Less is More
We all know that holiday shopping is an artificial construct designed by the marketing machine to keep the economy humming. It’s stressful, because you’re always feeling pressure to quickly make purchasing decisions with a deadline looming.

Giving and receiving is supposed to be fun. How can we reduce all the related frenzy and find more of the joy this season is constructed to be?

Well, spending less time shopping is probably a good start. Browsing for random deals is a huge time suck. You’ve really got to know what you’re looking for.

At Home with Existing Tech?
And if that special person asks you what you might want for a gift, and you’re not craving anything, that’s okay. (That doesn’t mean you’re ‘ungiftable.’)

For me, I think it’s been something of a slow year when it comes to wanting the latest and greatest tech. Still, I must admit, there are a few items out there
I wouldn’t mind receiving. For example…

  • A Self-Directed Drone for Swooping Cinematic Shots
    The DJI Neo is a tiny, automated drone that that you don’t have to fly yourself. It doesn’t need a controller and will simply circle its human subject using pre-programmed flight plans to record awesome 4K cinematic shots. The Neo takes off from your hand and then does the rest on its own. It’s like hiring your own drone crew to capture the ending of your personal movie… all for only $199. That’s a great price point. ($289 will get you 3 batteries and a charging hub.)

But I digress…

Less Browsing, More Planning
Like it or not, we’re all probably doing some holiday shopping. Just don’t overdo the browsing part. Focus more on the planning and deciding parts.

If you have a plan that takes some effort, it’s okay to go for it.

I’ll never forget the great gift I received when I was seven years old. My mother bought me my first audio cassette recorder that she couldn’t afford using promotional stamps.

She saw my interest and found a way to fuel it. Her gifting me that communications tool was a seminal moment in my timeline. Without it, my later life in professional video production may not have evolved. (Yes, if you wanted to time travel to change my life, I think that’s a clear juncture point.)

The Perfect Gift
This little tape recorder was the best present my mom ever gave me. And she spent months working on it. But doesn’t her process seemingly break the rules of moderation I’m now trying to follow as an adult?

Let’s review her strategy:

  • My mom had a plan
  • She spent a lot of time on it, but she didn’t waste any time shopping
  • And she effectively received a 100% discount on the purchase

It was, in fact, the perfect shopping execution for the best gift I ever received.

There’s Always a Sale
Again, the lesson here is to have a strong intention before you begin any shopping. (I’m trying really hard these days to follow this wisdom.)

Don’t be distracted by the hundreds of items on sale. It’s not about the sale. That can lead you down the wrong path and hours of wasted time.

First commit the time to consider what the person might like. Once you’ve completed that step, the rest will follow.

Then, go find your sale. It’ll be there waiting for you.

Because that’s how the system works.

Placing a Google Nest Cam in the Wild May Not be that Smart

Here’s my cautionary tale when I tried to add a battery-powered Google Nest Cam into my existing Nest ecosystem and then position it in my backyard.

I maintain several Nests in our home. These different smart home devices have worked great together across the years with my Nest iPhone app.

  • I can peer in from afar using my Nest Cam.
  • I control the temperature with my Nest Learning Thermostat.
  • And my Nest Protect monitors my home and updates me with any smoke or carbon monoxide detection. (Fortunately, it’s my least-used device.)

Google bought the Nest product line a decade ago and began integrating it into the Google Home ecosystem. Yes, all my Wi-Fi Nest gear still worked fine with my old Nest app. But every so often my app nudged me to migrate to the Google Home app. I’d be stalling, simply because I didn’t want to mess with a good thing.

Then, a new variable entered the equation.

Adding a Google Nest Cam to my Nest
I decided to add an outdoor, battery-powered Google Nest Cam into my Nest world. I wanted to put it in my backyard to track occasional wildlife that meanders by.

Buying a battery-driven device is both a blessing and a curse. You can’t quite set it and forget it, as it will need to occasionally be recharged. But you also don’t have to run an electrical line into your backyard.

So, there’s amazing flexibility with a wire-free, battery-powered security camera that you can pop most anywhere (indoor or out). What’s not to like?

Mandatory Upgrade to Google Home
So, I bought my Google Nest Cam, opened the box and eagerly pulled out the gleaming white orb. I then plugged it in to juice it up. But when I started the installation process using my Nest app, I immediately ran into trouble. A message popped up that said this Nest Cam will only work with the Google Home app.

Okay. Sorry Nest app. It was great working with you. Now, I finally had to download Google Home onto my iPhone and migrate my Nest account over to Google.

The process went smoothly, and I was welcomed into the Google Smart Home world. I scanned a QR code with my iPhone, and the app did the rest.

So, I was quickly back on track.

Two Apps Instead of One
Yes, my new Google Nest Cam was ready for action. But what about the rest of my Nest ecosystem? Everything showed up on my Google Home app except my Nest Protect. Where did that go?!

I did a bit of online research and found the unfortunate answer. The Nest Protect hasn’t yet been integrated into Google Home.

What?

I would still have to use my old Nest app to stay connected with my Nest Protect. (I’m not saying goodbye to my Nest app after all.) So now, I’ve got two apps to use instead of one.

  • The Google Home app for my two Nest Cams and my Nest Learning Thermostat
  • My old Nest app for my Nest Protect

I don’t think that’s fabulous integration.

But it’s a minor inconvenience. You can’t get distracted by the little things. I’m sure it’ll eventually get sorted. Time to move on.

Installation Fantasy
You may consider my installation plan a bit outside of normal parameters. I planned to attach it to a tree pointed at our deck to better observe the occasional wildlife that passes through our backyard.

I’ve spotted deer a few times as well as a red fox. I sometimes observe the neighborhood hedgehog, and I even saw a racoon once peering at me from the edge of our deck at night.

I know this can be normal stuff in the burbs. But remember, I’m a city boy from Manhattan. I’m not wired for this.

But I figured with a little more surveillance, I’d feel somehow happier.
(Please don’t push my theory too hard.)

A Tree is Not a Wall
I tried my tree installation plan several times, until I realized it was half-baked. The circular mount wasn’t going to sit properly on the uneven bark surface. And I wasn’t keen to wait to eventually find a dead Nest Cam cracked open on the deck or ground below.

On the other hand, I knew there were likely other solutions for a backyard installation… There must be something else I could attach it to.

But first there was another problem to consider.

How Waterproof is Water Resistant?
According to Google, “the Nest Cam is water resistant in accordance with its IP54 rating, but it is not waterproof.”

What does that mean? Can it be outdoors and uncovered, or can’t it? Does it require some sort of overhang for protection, like a porch ceiling?

I originally didn’t even consider the issue… it’s an outdoor camera, right? On the front of the Nest Cam box, there’s a photo of the camera dripping with rain while attached to the side of a house. And the words printed next to the picture… “Security, rain or shine.”

Well, maybe not too much rain.

I found some questions online about this, and yes there are stories from owners with malfunctioning Nest Cams after one too many rainstorms.

Hmmm… another rabbit hole to dig out from.

Another House For my Camera to Live In?
So back to my installation quandary. I had been thinking about screwing my Nest Cam onto a tree. Well, what about screwing it into something instead? Like a bird house.

That would offer some protection from the rain. I Googled “Nest Cam bird house,” and happily, yes, I saw some solutions out there.

But now, my project had morphed from a tech installation challenge into a backyard decoration project that will require a little more thought and my better half’s involvement. And that’s going to take a bit more time.

This is where my Google Nest Cam story pauses for now.

The Animals are Laughing at Me
I’m confident I’ll find a good installation solution. But it’ll probably require a bit more DIY thinking.

My uneven experience so far has taught me that a smart home is not the same as a smart backyard. And a Nest is not exactly the same as a Google Nest.

If you’re considering a similar expansion into the wild using a Google Nest Cam, it’s probably a good idea to think this all through first.

How my Lost Amazon Package Led to this Walmart+ Discount at the Gas Pump

My missing Amazon order unexpectedly steered me toward Walmart+ with its promise to save me 10¢ per gallon when filling up my hybrid SUV. Here’s what happened.

Yes, my Amazon order never showed up. I’ve been patiently tracking the delivery of a new black belt. (My old belt wore out where my work badge clips on.) The package is way overdue, and the tracking number stopped posting updates a week ago. (It left Windsor Locks, CT at 4:56am.)

I think my belt is likely lost in transit.

Uncertainty Leads to Opportunity
No worries. My life will continue without disruption. I have other belts, and of course, I’ll buy another one. But I’m first interested to see what happens next. Amazon is now kindly offering me the opportunity to cancel my order. But that’s too easy. Will Amazon blink first? Will someone or something refund me or alternatively mail out another belt? We’ll find out…

The good news is Amazon has a delivery success rate of about 99.9998% to my house. Sometimes packages just get lost.

But these infrequent moments do remind me how much my online shopping has consolidated around Amazon. And that’s not always good. More choice is better. It would be nice if Amazon had a little more competition. Of course, they’ve run most everyone else out of business.

But there is… Walmart.

Time to Try Out Walmart+
Yes, I’ve shopped at walmart.com a few times across the pandemic. But its marketplace is often flooded with any number of third-party sellers with more expensive pricing. So, you’ve got to really know the correct price points. (To be fair, Amazon sometimes has that problem too.)

So, my relationship with Walmart has remained an in-store experience. Then, my new belt got lost and I happened to simultaneously find a discount opportunity to join Walmart+.

Walmart’s paid membership is like Amazon Prime in that you get free shipping and delivery, plus other member benefits.

Yes, I pay for Amazon Prime, and yes, I believe I’m getting value in the annual cost, mostly due to the Prime Video platform, in addition to the free shipping.

So, with an easy onramp to join Walmart+, I decided to give it a spin. Plus, I was especially attracted to one big perk.

Save 10¢ on a Gallon of Gas
I’ve always been interested in signing up for a fuel-discount program, and Walmart+ has one. I’ve previously hedged on other opportunities that are more complex than I really wanted to deal with. But the strong Walmart brand and the simple set up on the Walmart app gave me confidence to explore this discount gas deal.

The Walmart+ program saves you 10¢ per gallon at Exxon, Mobil, Walmart and Murphy stations. Again, you need the Walmart app on your phone to access the special pricing. Here’s how it worked when I drove into a Mobil station.

  • As soon as I opened the Walmart+ app, it asked if I wanted to gas up. It had already sensed the Mobil station wirelessly. I said, “Yes, please!”
  • As soon as I tapped in the pump number, it confirmed the credit card I wanted to use.
  • And that was really it. The pump activated, I selected 87 octane, and I was ready to go.
  • When I was done, I received a receipt on my app, which confirmed my discount, and I drove away.

Really easy. Never had to swipe a credit card at the pump.

So now, I’ve got a new hybrid SUV which needs less gas, and a new way to save money on the gas that I do buy.

Hallucination Vs. Reality
I have this silly vision that the Amazon delivery van with my belt ran out of gas, and the van is abandoned on the side of the road somewhere.

If only the Amazon driver had a Walmart+ account. That extra 10¢/gallon savings might have provided a little more fuel to get that van to my house.

Maybe my belt will find its way home in time for the holidays. Perhaps someone else is already wearing it.

Yes, it’s just a belt, but the butterfly effect from its disappearance has strangely led me to save some money at the gas pump.

Now, I’m even more intrigued with how my belt story will end.