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The Most Important Piece of a Man’s Work Wardrobe to Get Right 

Though business casual will relax your image, looking sharp is still important. If that’s your goal, don’t forget to address this important detail.

As a man, dressing for work shouldn’t be difficult. In fact, it used to be relatively straight forward. If you went into an office, jacket and tie or suit was standard wear. (Remember those days?)

Then, business casual crept in, and ties evaporated. Jackets and jeans were okay. A dressy sneaker category appeared almost overnight. Weekend shirts muscled their way into the work week. Distinct color-matching categories blended together.

It was both liberating and much more complicated to figure out what to wear.

The Years of T-Shirts and Sweats
Then, Covid hit, and so many of us worked remotely. During those years, everyone essentially showed up in their pajamas on their webcams for their Zoom or Teams meetings.

That may be a slight exaggeration, but not by much. Sure, many of us had our ‘Zoom’ shirts at the ready, but not everyone followed that practice.

I’m sure these years were seen as a fashion apocalypse of sorts by many clothing manufacturers.

Back in the Office
Now that life has returned to a sort of post-Covid normal, offices have filled up again. I know the numbers back in the office aren’t quite the same. The reality that I can always find a parking space at my commuter train station, and I no longer have to hunt for the very last seat on the train regularly displays this new reality.

Nevertheless, I am a road warrior again, albeit not daily. And that has been an exceptionally happy change. I love the hybrid experience. It optimizes the efficiency of not losing all those hours to a daily commute, and yet it still allows you to have in-person interactions with work colleagues.

The New Business Casual
For what I’ve observed, dressing for the business casual environment today continues to evolve (or perhaps I should say devolve). I think the idea of fashion flexibility in the workplace is also dependent on your company’s culture.

All this said, if you’re a guy who never wanted to give a lot of thought to this equation, I don’t believe there’s an easy way out anymore. (Yes, all of my Brooks Brothers’ suits are forever banished to the back of my closet.)

You’ve really got to decide on your own style and spend some time (and money) shopping again.

Focus on your Shirt
For me, the most important element of a man’s work look is his shirt. Sure, pants and shoes are important too, but as most people focus on your face when they interact with you (or they should), your shirt is what frames your main visual output.

Of course, you probably want a shirt that fits you properly. And you need to decide on the color and pattern. These days, I prefer brighter and deeper colors. Long gone are my white shirts, and I’ve mostly graduated away from my conservative blues.

Brighter shirts also work better on your Zoom and Teams calls, because they don’t prompt your laptop’s webcam to overexpose your shot.

A Droopy Shirt Collar Can Create a Fashion Failure
Even if you get the right fit, many men’s shirts reveal a hidden problem as soon as you put them on. It’s the collar.

If you don’t button up for a tie, an open collar will often wilt and hang down with the two front corners drooping in asymmetrical positioning.

The droopy collar just looks sloppy. And there’s really no way to fix it.

So, if you want to look professional in your casual look, you need to find shirt brands with collars that don’t completely lose their form without a tie.

The Proper Shirts of Charles Tyrwhitt
My brand of choice is Charles Tyrwhitt. The company is British, and their marketing talks a lot about making a ‘proper’ shirt.

The collars are spread collars, which I think is the secret ingredient. Yes, the aura of a shirt from London gives it charm, but really, it’s the spread collar holding its form all day that makes Charles Tyrwhitt my favorite shirt brand. (I also love their suits.)
I’ve been buying these shirts for years. I’ve frequented their New York City stores, but you can also buy Charles Tyrwhitt shirts online. (Just note that shipping takes some time, as they need to travel from across the pond.)

The Relaxed Look of UNTUCKit
I recently bought a shirt from UNTUCKit for the first time. I’ve heard a lot about this brand from colleagues, and I wanted to pick up a new shirt the weekend ahead of a work conference I was attending.

Schlepping to a Charles Tyrwhitt store in New York City couldn’t be part of my weekend schedule, but UNTUCKit conveniently had a store in my Connecticut mall fifteen minutes away. So, I figured it was finally time to explore UNTUCKit.

Yes, UNTUCKit is the shirt that you can wear untucked, because the bottom of the shirt is shorter than normal. Somewhere in the past few years, the idea of an untucked man’s shirt became an acceptable business casual item, and clearly UNTUCKit has taken advantage of this trend.

I liked the idea of expanding my own business casual look but was still focused on the collar and the entire fit when I walked in the UNTUCKit store.

So let me tell you, I tried on just about every shirt in the store. And that’s because it was difficult finding a shirt that worked for me.

Not because of the collar. Even though these shirts have a standard collar vs spread collars, they held their form relatively well.

It was about finding the right size/fit with the right color. The store didn’t have everything in stock, and shipping wasn’t an option, as I was flying out the next day (the limitations of last-minute shopping).
Anyway, I finally found a good choice with a cool pink and blue check, and I was quite satisfied wearing it during my conference. (That said, I ended up tucking in the shirt! Please don’t tell anyone.)

An Open Collar has to Hold it All Together
Ultimately, regardless of the shirt brand you wear in the office, I believe it’s how the two collar tips position off your neck that make all the difference.

Whether it’s a proper shirt or something that you can leave untucked, it’s all about the collar.

If you want to look sharp and put together in a business casual environment, your open collar absolutely needs to fit with that story.

How to Organize Vacation Photos to Tell a Complete Story

This is the start of our recent trip to Alaska. Here’s why this type of ‘reference photo’ is so important when you want to curate a complete visual story of your vacation.

After a family vacation, I always like to go through my photos and pick out the very best ones. Actually… the best few. (And that’s usually harder to do than you might think.) They’re the ones that really tell the story. And I’m talking under 40-50 pictures.

If you’ve tried a similar exercise, you know what a challenge this can be. Sure, creating a photo book with hundreds of your vacation photos doesn’t require you to choose from all your darlings. But if you’re going to simply show off your photos from your phone to family and friends, their eyes will quickly glaze over after only a dozen of your finger flips.

You’ve got to keep your presentation short. And you should choose the pics that go well together and represent the total arc your trip.

Ideally, they should also visually represent the key information about your travels. Sure, you can audibly fill in the details through a little voice-over support as you share your pictures in the moment. But I think the best collections of family travel photography don’t require that. The photos should stand on their own.

The 3 Categories of Vacation Photos

To create the best collection of vacation photos, you’ll need to take and include three types of shots.

#1 – The Money Shots
It’s obvious that you’ll want to show off your ‘money shots.’ These are your best photos of the ‘place’ you’ve visited. Whether it’s the natural beauty of the wild or a famous urban landscape, those are the photos that anchor your entire trip.

#2 – Your Selfies
And then we all know to snap some selfies along the way (or ask a friendly tourist to take a posed shot of you and your family). You’ve got to include a few of those shots in your collection, right? That’s what makes it your trip.

#3 – Reference Shots
This third category isn’t intuitive, and you’re not going to realize you really need them until you try to put your collection together. I call them reference shots. Think of them as the thread that stitches your whole photo story together. In many ways they’re like an establishing shot in a movie.

These shots provide the context you’ll want for your other photos.

The Boat
For example, on my family’s recent vacation to Alaska, we went on an amazing day cruise on Prince William Sound to get up close and personal with a few glaciers. It was incredible. So sure, I got tons of shots of the glaciers and some shots of my family posing in front of the glaciers. But I almost forgot to get a shot of the boat we were on.
The boat was really a big part of the story… We were on Prince William Sound… and cruised right up to a glacier… and there we are… on this boat. It’s so important to complete the visual sentence.

The Trailhead Marker
Another example: We took the hike of a lifetime right next to Exit Glacier in Kenai Fjords National Park up the Harding Icefield Trail.
The money shots were a couple hours away up the trail, but I intentionally dragged my feet at the beginning of our hike to let everyone in our Backroads group walk ahead of me as I shot the trailhead marker that contained the key details.

The Name of the Place
Ideally, it’s great to find a shot that includes the actual name of your location. That’s so helpful, especially as an opening shot for your visual story.
I found my ‘Alaska’ shot spontaneously as we were biking the Bird to Gird path along the Turnagain Arm. Suddenly an Alaska Railroad train roared by. I braked, grabbed my camera from my belly bag and snapped my photo!

Set Up your Visual Story
These reference shots are easy to forget. But they’re the glue to help group together all your other photos and represent a complete story.

In the same way that any written story has a beginning, middle and end, so should your collection of vacation photos.

Whether you think of them as ‘reference’ or ‘set up’ or ‘establishing’ shots, just a few of them can serve this need exceptionally well. You just have to be mindful to find them along the way.

Don’t Dilly Dally
And if your traveling companions glance at you quizzically the next time you take an extra few beats to snap one of these shots, just remember the value they represent.

Even through you might then have to hoof it to catch up to the rest of your group (guilty), it’s worth it.

Just don’t take too long. Otherwise you’ll risk falling too far behind your own story!

Why Loki is the Best MCU Series on Disney+

Season 2 of “Loki” has arrived, and it’s even more weirdly wonderful as the first.

With the exception of “The Hobbit” and “Harry Potter” movies, the Marvel Cinematic Universe has often dominated my son’s movie streaming over recent years. (A “Star Wars” film occasionally shows up on our 13-year-old’s list, although he was absolutely all in while watching the “Andor” series.)

And I’ve been exceptionally happy to join him on his MCU viewing odyssey (#geekdad #trekkie).

But MCU movies don’t come out that often. So, it’s really the series on Disney+ that have carried the MCU forward across these past few years.

Loki Branches Out
“Loki” kicked it all off back in 2021. The show starred Tom Hiddleston as our reborn God of Mischief, Owen Wilson as Agent Mobius and Sophia Di Martino as variant Sylvie. “Loki” gave us a mind-bending and universe-expanding storyline featuring the Time Variance Authority (TVA) and its questionable mandate to protect the ‘Sacred Timeline.’

There were only six episodes, and of course, the last scene ended with a cliffhanger. This first season was way too short, but every moment felt so fresh.

“Loki” was funny, clever, weird, touching and totally fun. Beyond the great writing, top-notch acting, future/retro look and cool music, its success was mostly driven through character development. Season 1 wasn’t about the explosions and special effects. It was about the people. Each and every character mattered.

“Loki” succeeded because it was a completely different MCU experience. It opened up so many new branches to explore (literally and figuratively).

The MCU Needs to Find its Mojo
Other MCU series on Disney+ followed, and the ones that also focused on being different and not simply a retread were also more appealing. (“Moon Knight” was a perfect example.)

Not to overgeneralize, but as a whole, the current state of the entire MCU (not just the Disney+ series) feels a bit like Thor and his dad bod.

Thank the gods that season 2 of “Loki” has finally arrived.

Ouroboros Rocks!
The premiere did not disappoint. It packed in everything I love about this series. They obviously had some time to tinker with every element, and this first episode demonstrated nice polish.

It was so smart and even more trippy than the first season. Plus, we were introduced to the wonderful new character Ouroboros (O.B.), played by Ke Huy Quan (from “Everything Everywhere All at Once”)

In many ways, O.B. represents the quirky and magical energy of the entire series. It’s like he’s simultaneously in on the joke and also a part of it.

Pay Attention
Everything doesn’t always make sense (at first), and a casual viewer may feel like the show is choppy, inconsistent and hard to understand.

Exactly. That’s the beauty. There’s a mystery here that needs unraveling. And you’d better pay attention to… everything. (Even what’s blurred out in the background during a climactic moment in the first episode).

The Beginning of Season 2 doesn’t Disappoint
I’ve seen the first two episodes as I write this. The premiere is arguably the best in the entire series to date. The second runs a bit more mainstream, though it also has its moments, including the wonderful pie-eating scene…

The whole story grinds to a halt as Loki and Mobius spend a few minutes eating key lime pie in the TVA cafeteria’s automat. This moment reflects the secret ingredient to this series’ successful recipe: This show takes it’s time to tell its story.

It’s About Time
That doesn’t mean “Loki” is slow. Hardly. But nothing is rushed either. There’s time for character development… for innovative shots… for a great script.

There’s always time for fun and playfulness. And time to simply let a joke… land.

And that’s why “Loki” continues to be the best MCU series on Disney+.

My son and I love it. For all time. Always.