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Don’t Miss this Important Part of an Effective Work Email

How well you write an email is only half the equation. If you rush it, you may miss this path to success.

The commute-to-work model is a shattered construct. Many of us corporate folks now stay home and remotely dance to our own beat with more flexible schedules. With remote work, the workday can be redesigned into countless versions of our 24 x 7 existence.

That’s flexibility. That’s freedom. That’s evolution!

Are You Awake?
But your unique schedule can fall outside of normal business hours and may not always align with your colleagues. If you need to communicate, what are you supposed to do?

You’re certainly not going to call them and wake them up. (And who makes phone calls anymore?)

We all know the standard solution is an email. When your recipients are back online, they’ll read it then. What’s the problem?

The Road to a ‘Perfect’ Connection
Once upon a time, our species chained itself to clunky desktop computers in the office. If you walked away, you were disconnected from the collective. Then, laptops showed up, and suddenly you could be connected from different locations. Eventually, work email made it to mobile devices, and you were entirely free to work from anywhere there was a cell signal.

Staying connected couldn’t be easier.

I often like to refer to the evil Borg characters on “Star Trek: The Next Generation.” They had bad skin, and they weren’t friendly. But their hive-mind collective kept them constantly updated and in-the-know. It was the ultimate connection. Nobody was left out, and everyone was on the same page.

It was the perfect workplace utopia. And of course, the ultimate nightmare for the human race.

Are We Ever Entirely Offline?
I must admit… in another universe, there’s a version of me who is Borg. That’s because I often feel the pull of what I call the ‘email siren song.’

  • Do I have my work email on my iPhone? Of course.
  • Will my emails also show up on my Apple Watch? Yup.
  • If I’m wearing my AirPods, does Siri whisper my updates to me? Uh huh.

Maybe I’m already partially Borg. My technological enhancements are simply more elegant (courtesy of Apple).

I know I’m not unique. There are many who are also Borg-leaning… always connected… quick to respond to an email no matter where or when they are.

Happily, there are still plenty of humans playing by more reasonable rules set by our circadian rhythms. These ‘rebels’ in our ever-increasing ‘Matrix’ society are savvy, and they do just fine setting reasonable limits. (It’s working smarter… not harder… right?)

Email Siren Song
Don’t worry. I’m not truly Borg. And I don’t aspire to be a controlling alpha Borg queen. (I don’t typically communicate with my collective after normal business hours.)

And though I’m aware of inbound communications (unless I’m sleeping) I usually won’t respond. Unless there’s a fire raging, I don’t reach out.

But yes, I still listen to the email siren song.

Disclaimers may not Matter
Sometimes, I see an email late at night. At the bottom, there’s a disclaimer that admits the sender is working outside of normal business hours and doesn’t expect others to respond until the sun has risen.

But it’s too late. I’ve read the email. And if there are multiple recipients, the discussion may then start to move forward, regardless of the sender’s disclaimer.

Navigating these complexities can be hard. There are no easy answers. But here’s a great way to minimize the problem:

Schedule your After-Hours Emails to Deliver the Next Day
If you need to catch up on email at night, do the work, but delay when your email goes out.

If it’s not urgent, I recommend you simply hit that ‘delay’ email tab and schedule your emails to ‘send’ the next business morning.

I highly recommend it.

Put your Smartphone to Sleep!
Unfortunately, not everyone follows this best practice. So, you may need to protect yourself from overnight emails while you’re snoring. And to do that, schedule your phone to go to sleep along with you.

Even if your phone is set to silent mode, its ‘buzzing’ can wake you up in the middle of the night.

That’s happened to me on more than a few occasions. I finally went into my iPhone’s settings to really shut it down while I was getting some shut-eye.

Your Emails are Ambassadors
Every touch point in your life contributes to who you are and how you are seen. It’s part of your personal brand.

You should consider that each email you send is an ambassador that represents you and your brand.

How well you write your emails is certainly important, but when they show up can have an even greater impact… and not always in a good way.

Often, successful communication is about timing. Always ask yourself this question: “When will your email be most effective?”

So be mindful to the when.

Don’t rush it.

How to Handle a Lost Email

Who has the time to process an endless avalanche of incoming emails?  So a few are bound to fall through the cracks.  The question is what to do when an important one gets lost.

Who has the time to process an endless avalanche of incoming emails? So a few are bound to fall through the cracks. The question is what to do when an important one gets lost.

Once upon a time, I would send an email to someone…
And if I didn’t receive a quick response, I’d wonder what was up.
Then if a week or two went by, I’d think, “What the #@%?!”

Of course, now I understand there’s a silent, evil force at play…

Email Overload!
Actually, there are really no bad guys here. It’s simply the result of the ever-increasing volume of emails we’ve all got to deal with, both at home and at work…

  • Whether it’s the mass of marketing emails you’ve inadvertently invited to invade your home email…
    (In store: “Sir, would you mind giving us your email address for those pair of socks you bought?”)
  • Or those pseudo-spam emails…
    (“Since you purchased a widget at our parent site, we thought you’d like to receive daily-deal emails from our seven partner sites.”
  • Or the constant chatter of your work email’s Inbox…
    (“Thank you.” Copy all. “You’re welcome.” Copy all. “Looking forward to the next project.” Copy all.)

…The plain fact is your email’s Inbox has exploded.
There’s simply too much email to completely get through in a day.

And certainly not enough time to perform perfect email maintenance by organizing your important emails into folders and deleting the rest.

Who among us still starts their day with zero emails in their Inbox?
(You there… in the back… put your hand down!)

Start Digging
So more often than not, I find myself searching through old emails down the steep slope of my Inbox to find what I need.

Usually, it’s simple enough. Search by ‘From’ or by a ‘Subject’ string.
No, it’s not the most efficient use of your time, but it usually gets the job done.

Typically, the emails you need are relatively current. But if you’ve got to drill deeper into your past and further down the email mountain, you could find yourself in big trouble….

Lost but Not Forgotten
I was driving to work last week, and going through a little mental exercise emptying my head of the logistical issues for the day ahead. Occasionally,  this creates more space for my mind to do a little productive wandering. And sometimes, a good idea pops into my head.  Now and then, I remember something I’ve forgotten to do.

This time, my noggin reminded me I had to respond to an email… an email that was at least a couple weeks old.

My delay in itself didn’t reflect a huge oops on my part. It was one of those emails that didn’t require an immediate turnaround. But I needed to get to it eventually. And two weeks is pushing it, no matter what email etiquette you follow.

The email in question contained the name and phone number of someone I had committed to calling. Suddenly, I felt an adrenaline rush.

Where was that email?!
It was buried.

Deep.

And guess what?
I had forgotten the name of the sender.

The Rescue Begins
So now what?

Quickly, I tried to remember what the ‘Subject’ was.
All I had to work with was I knew it was about setting up a meeting.

“Meeting.”
Hmmm…. That’s a long shot. How many hundreds of unsorted emails contain that word in the title? But I typed it in anyway.

Pop.

Whoah. There it was!!
(Apparently “Meeting” isn’t such a popular title after all.)
Still, I’d call this an early holiday gift from the email gods.

And so I finally responded and successfully masked my little faux pas.

Flag It!!
Of course, one simple way to hold onto an old, unsorted email is to flag it with a color stamp. That way, at least it will stand out.

But you’ve got to use this technique sparingly or else your email program will start to look like one of my son’s coloring books.

Send a Reminder
So what’s the takeaway here…?

I’m losing your emails.
You’re losing my emails.
We’re all losing emails!

The solution: If you don’t hear back, send out a reminder email!

What?!
How rude is that?!

It’s not inappropriate at all. I’d say you’re being helpful!
Just pen your message politely.

And I think it’s okay to reframe your messaging:

  • Add a little more urgency
  • State specific needs more clearly
  • Add why you require a more timely response

Even if your original email didn’t get lost, some of the critical details might not have been correctly absorbed.

And here’s the best part:
Reminder emails get the job done!

Can I let you in on a little secret?
Remember that lingering ‘meeting’ email I lost and then found?

It was his reminder email!