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4 Smart Strategies for Buying Tech for Your Teen

A teenager wearing wireless headphones stares out of a window onto a city street.
How to go about buying expensive technology for your teenager can be confusing and often a challenge. Here’s what I do.

We all know how expensive personal tech can be. The price points don’t change for your kids and teens. Tech is tech.

As a parent of a teenager in high school, it’s already been a couple years since I faced the reality that toys are for kids, and he’s not really a kid anymore. When I shop for our son, he wants (and often needs) the same tech as I do.

That said, the gear we all use is often available at a variety of price points. So, when shopping for our teen, yes, I’m inclined to first look at the lower end, but I’m also mindful to get him something ‘good.’ 

I don’t want to fall for ‘a deal’ on a model that’s subpar. A bargain is not always good value in the name of trying to save a buck. Not for me. Not for my boy.

So, I do find it a complex balancing act as a parent, and I must admit I carry some baggage to this shopping equation.

My Father Got Me Used Tech
I recall the moments my own father gifted me the tech I craved when I was a kid… a stereo system for my room and later a cool Sony Walkman. What I also still remember was the stereo was in an already-opened box, and my Walkman had an annoying dent in its metal frame (but it worked fine).

Not to diss my dad, who passed away in 2022, but the memories of these slightly used gifts still kick around the back of my brain. 

Sure, he was probably going through the same questions as I am now as a father. And he made some choices. And just so you know, it wasn’t an affordability question. There are a few other details, but they don’t change the facts. Nor do they blunt these feelings decades later.

Finding a deal for yourself is one thing. Shopping for a discount for someone else’s gift can be entirely different. As we go through this topic, I just wanted to reveal this story as I share my own gifting strategies as a dad.

Of course, I look for reasonable and smart ways to buy tech more affordably for my son. But I also don’t want to repeat the gifting mistakes my father did.

So, all this said, here are four ways I’ve been trying to navigate this tech terrain as a father…

#1
Start at the Entry Level

As any number of tech product categories mature, less expensive versions eventually show up. They’re usually not as good. But sometimes… they’re almost as good and often in the ways that matter most. And that’s where I look for gifting opportunities.

I like this approach especially with the brands we already know and love. Apple’s iPhone SE is a great example, and yep, my son has one. I actually bought it for myself as a ‘transition phone’ after I drowned my old iPhone. (That’s a whole other story.) Later, the SE went to him.

Not every entry level choice is the right move. You’ve got to do some homework.

#2
Shop for Yesterday’s Best

Sometimes, last year’s model at a discount is still a great choice. How much better is the newest version really going to be?  

And most importantly, last year’s great model can be a much better choice than a cheaper model that’s brand new. Shopping for price is only one piece of the equation.

I recently applied this shopping strategy for a pair of noise-cancelling wireless headphones for our son.

I went with the older Bowers & Wilkins Px7 S2 Over-Ear Headphones. They received amazing reviews. But there’s a newer model: the Px7 Se. Yes, that’s the latest-and-greatest (unless you must have the even more expensive Px8).

But the discontinued Px7 S2 was still for sale and at a nicely discounted price. So, I bought it. 

I think the Px7 S2 was a really solid choice. And most importantly, my son loves his new headphones.

Always remember to take a look at yesterday’s best.

#3
Don’t Skimp on the Guts of a Computer

We’re an Apple family. So, of course my son has a MacBook. I got him the MacBook Air. No… not the more expensive MacBook Pro. But I made that choice also because the MacBook Air is so good. And I bought the current model at the time. 

Sure, I could have saved a couple hundred dollars on last year’s model. But in this circumstance, I didn’t follow my ‘yesterday’s-best’ strategy. I applied a different shopping strategy for computers. 

I always like to buy the current model with the newest chip. That choice can help the laptop last at least an extra year or more at the back end of its life cycle.

Same rule for me and our son.

#4
Brand Often Matters

Not every model that a well-known brand sells is going to be good. Again, you’ve got to do your homework. But if you’ve got to put your trust somewhere, I think it’s smart to stick with the brands you already know. 

This may seem like an obvious point when it comes to big-ticket items, but for any number of accessories, you’re going to come across plenty of manufacturers you don’t recognize.

Be careful. I’d say it’s not worth taking the risk to save a few bucks. Sure, there are exceptions, but there’s already a fair amount of playing the odds when you shop. Why not stack the odds in your favor?

Shop Smart
Buying tech for your teen should follow the same smart shopping strategies for any purchase:

  • Identify a quality product.
  • Only get the features you need.
  • Then find a good price.

Of course, there’s always the hand-me-down strategy (like My iPhone SE). Nothing really wrong with that (although teen Barrett would probably have taken issue with it).

But if you’re making a purchase, yesterday’s best is usually the perfect place to start your search.

How my Mother Influenced my Parenting Style

My mom was always there for me. It’s a high bar to match as a parent today. And one might ask if it’s actually too much. Here’s my parenting story for the day. You decide…

I have this memory from when I was a child. I don’t know why it’s lasted. I was twelve years old, and I needed to finish a seemingly insurmountable school project. It was a research paper, and I had left way too much of it to the last night. I was overwhelmed, and I guess I didn’t have the skills to plan it out better.

My Mom Saved the Day
What I remember from this sliver of my past is that my mother stayed up with me past midnight to help me get it all done. She sat at my desk while I did my work on my bed with numerous books surrounding me.

I think my mom was there mostly for moral support, but I do retain wisps of a moment of her going through a particular book, looking for some key information for me to use, and then writing it down on a yellow note pad.

I think I successfully turned in my project the next day, but that’s not what I really remember. It’s my mom helping me out in the middle of the night, when I couldn’t help myself.

Was that good parenting? Was it the right move to create a study group fueled by the organizational power of an adult? Wouldn’t the lesson of failure due to poor time management taught me more at that early age?

But that’s not how my mom was wired. And for better or worse, my wiring is based on that.

Role Reversal
This memory is particularly present, because I recently found myself in a similar situation with our twelve-year-old son. And now I’m the parent.

Our son had a history research project to complete. It was a group video project that he was working on with two other students. And yes, they fell behind. (And I knew with my own understanding of video production what technical challenges they might encounter.)

Fast forward to the night of the deadline… Their video needed to be finished and uploaded by midnight. The three were furiously working together virtually, and they were completely focused. There’s nothing like a looming deadline to keep you going.

Learning Visual Storytelling at an Early Age
A quick aside… I’d like to call out the fact that these seventh graders were editing a 10-minute video, complete with a script, b-roll, VO and music. They had collaborated mostly virtually and built their video project using an online platform.

This blows my mind, because these kids had to figure out how to line up all of the necessary workflows and proper collaboration to get a complex video finished by a challenging deadline. Plus, they needed to lock a narrative and find collective creative alignment.

That’s what I do for a living!!

So yes, I think this was a particularly big lift. These boys were still building their plane as they flew towards midnight.

Finding the Right Level of Parental Support
When our son announced at dinner six hours before the deadline that he would have to work through the night to try to get it all done with his schoolmates, it prompted my flashback to my own homework gauntlet when my mother came to my rescue.

So I told my son that I would stay up with him to help as I could. (No, I didn’t take over the video edit, though a part of me really wanted to offer!) He had his own team to work with. He wasn’t alone, like I was all those years ago.

I was simply there for moral support, and I prepared some late night snacks to help him feel fueled as he burned the midnight oil.

Perfection not Required
I’m happy to report that the team did complete their video, and I was pleased to see my son celebrate their accomplishment, bleary-eyed as he was.

Yes, it was an entirely imperfect process, and the sprint to the finish line contributed to that hard reality. I hope it was a good lesson that will contribute to future improvements in how he tackles these types of challenges.

Flexing a Growing Skillset
The next morning, he premiered his video for me and my wife, and he separately displayed his complex video editing timeline with pride.
His ability to align appropriate imagery and photos to his VO track seemed almost effortless and entirely organic.

I can claim some genetic talent that I’ve passed down, but it’s just my son getting it done using his own talents. Plus, I think it’s an example of his generation growing up with digital technologies. It’s simply second nature to them. Amazing.

No Need to Come to the Rescue
Our son didn’t require our last-minute help. He just needed our support. And I think someone to stay up late in a nearby room.

I camped out on the couch in the family room. And after I brought him his snacks, I actually may have dozed off for a bit. (I had set the alarm on my Apple Watch to ensure I didn’t miss his deadline.)

Remembering my Mother
Sorry, Mom. I know I didn’t have your endurance in this moment. But your grandson, who you never met, didn’t need it. He was just fine as he approached his own finish line.

Thank you for being there for me all of those years ago, because that’s what I needed.

Though I’m thinking a lot about Dad these days, I’ve been thinking about you too.

I miss you.