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What to do When your Holiday Gift doesn’t Show up

Packages don’t always arrive on time. Here’s how I try to handle that inevitability.

“Your package is on the way, but running late. We’re sorry for the delay. Now expected December 27 to December 29.”

That’s the email I recently received from Amazon. Yes, the package in question was a holiday gift for our son, and now it wasn’t.

You might think I was upset to receive that disappointing update. I was not.

Expect the Unexpected
I’ve always been something of a last-minute shopper. Try as I may, wrapping up gift purchases comes down to the wire every year. But I’ve always gotten it done. That said, this year was particularly difficult. (More on this in another post.)

As you might expect, online shopping has made the gifting equation easier for me, until it didn’t, when the pandemic and supply-chain issues delayed almost every delivery.

I was retrained to expect disruption.

And when online shopping returned mostly to normal, I wasn’t so quick to assume that ‘promised’ delivery times would always hold up.

So, did I expect some shipping delays and ultimately buy more gifts for our son than needed during my 2022 last-minute shopping sprint? Yes, I did.

And yes, there was a back-up gift ready to go to the front of the line.

Do You have a Back-up Plan?
So no, it was not disappointment I experienced when Amazon shared the bad news with me. I actually felt relief and a bit of joy. I think I even smiled. I was happy that I had successfully hedged against this possibility.

And I knew that I could easily return the package. Or perhaps I’ll keep it as a back-up gift for next year. (How’s that for early planning?)

It’s Not about the Gift
I know that the holidays shouldn’t always be about gift giving. Instead, it’s an opportunity to be with family and friends. It’s a time to connect and sometimes reconnect.

And it’s a time to celebrate who and what you have in your life.

You just don’t know what tomorrow will bring.

And if a gift shows up late, so what? As long as everyone you care about shows up, that’s all that really matters.

Happy holidays, and here’s to smiling at every late package arrival.

The Gifts that Matter

This toy police car was clearly one of my first favorite gifts. But I have no memory of it other than this picture. When you think about gifts that are going to last, you may need to break out the fortune cookies for direction…

This toy police car was clearly one of my first favorite gifts. But I have no memory of it other than this picture. When you think about gifts that are going to last, you may need to break out the fortune cookies for direction…

I’ve certainly been blabbing a bunch lately about gifts. Tech gifts for geeks. The right robot for your child. And even boring gear that will check the box. Of course, it’s been that time of year…

But today… especially today, it’s worth mentioning a few other gifts that are pretty important too. In fact, they’re essential. But you don’t exactly hand these kinds of things over. You can’t get them in a store or order them on Amazon.
Rather, you collect them over the course of your life.

They are the elements that make you… you.
And hopefully, others will contribute positively along your journey.

So at the risk of pretending I can offer any kind of valuable wisdom about life in general, these fortune cookie insights do resonate with me.

Here are a few thoughts on some gifts that truly matter…

The gift of purpose
And the gift of helping others

The gift of being able to go it alone
And the gift of knowing you’re never really alone

The gift of strong conviction
And the gift of recognizing you’re not perfect

The gift of always believing in yourself
And the gift of believing in something more than yourself

The gift of taking a chance
And the gift of being able to pick yourself up when you fail

The gift of not siding with the crowd
And the gift of knowing your true self

The gift of connection
And of course, the gift of good memories

People much smarter than me talk about being able to live an authentic life.
I guess it’s like that.

If there’s a larger theme at play here, I think it’s simply the gift of making a difference.

Go for it.