Why Forwarding Photos May Not Be a Welcome Gift
All of this time, I thought I was doing my family and friends a favor by emailing downloadable Dropbox links of photos I’ve snapped at group settings. I’ve been doing this for years. What’s not to like?
I know that people generally love to participate in digital photo sharing.
It’s also a quick and simple gift.
But you’ve got to admit, it’s something of a sloppy art.
Even so, I figure that folks can be responsible for what they do with the pictures they receive.
I think the problem is many people today just don’t have the time to do anything with your photos once they take a quick look at them.
That requires organization.
And good organization takes time.
Organization that even I have a hard time maintaining.
In fact, I’m still years in the rear at creating those ‘annual’ family photo albums to proudly live on our book shelves.
Some Assembly Required
I suppose emailing one or two photos shouldn’t really be a problem to handle. Even several… if they’re good pics.
But when you just throw twenty or thirty photos at someone, because you just don’t have time to do anything else, that just shifts the burden of organization onto the recipient.
You might think that you’re still doing them a favor, because once they go through everything, they’ll certainly separate the creative wheat from the chaff.
But you’re essentially sending someone more work to do.
That’s not such a great gift, is it?
Now, this is not a universal declaration. Take me for example…
If family and friends want to send me lots of unfiltered pics… I feel that’s better than not receiving anything at all.
(But I readily admit… I probably don’t represent the norm.)
The bottom line is you should always know your audience before you click on ‘send.’
The Analog Advantage
If you want to give the true gift of photo sharing that doesn’t require anything else to do, then you may have to suck it up and put in a little more effort…
And do you know what that looks like?
(I think you do.)
It’s a physical photo album or a photo book that’s completely done!
Will that take more time than you’re willing to commit?
Well, of course… there’s the rub.
Case in Point…
I’m always appreciative when someone hands me a little photo book celebrating an event or activity.
Sure, I might think… “Huh… I might have done that a little differently.”
But the reality is… I probably would never have gotten around to doing it at all!
And there’s your opportunity…
So recently, when a family friend scoffed at receiving a bunch of photos I emailed over, I didn’t take it personally.
Instead of a “Thank you,” I got a “When am I going to have the time to do anything with these?”
(And I had even gone through the batch to pick out the best ones!)
It was clearly time to create a tangible photo book…
Not to mention that I also received a direct request for one of these as a birthday gift.
(Isn’t clarity a wonderful thing?)
The Inner Truth
And for those of you digital geeks out there who don’t own a printer or know what a piece of paper is anymore (let alone a physical photo album)…
…You know you’re craving the same thing.
Wouldn’t it be nice if someone made you a physical photo album or book?
Your secret is safe with me.
What’s Old is New Again
It’s not so old school.
People love photo books.
It’s time to stop taking the easy way out by throwing your photos to the digital wind and hoping for the best.
Roll up your sleeves and create a physical photo collection that’s actually complete upon arrival.
Now, I’d better take a bit of my own advice and get to work on the birthday gift… The party is next week!