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How to Choose the Best TV for Your Aging Parent

Taking my father out to dinner on his birthday was easy. Helping him buy a new TV was considerably harder. That’s because they don’t make TVs like they used to. And that’s exactly why you’ve got to pay close attention when selecting a replacement TV for a member of the Greatest Generation. Here are my shopping tips…

My 86-year-old father needed some help replacing his old analog bedroom TV, which had finally sputtered out years past the digital revolution. So my dad picked up his iPhone and asked me for a recommendation on a replacement. If you ever find yourself in a similar situation, here are the factors to consider…

Select the Right TV Size
My dad’s old TV was this tube-based hulking box with a massive body and 27” screen in the ‘classic’ 4×3 orientation. A slender 16×9 32” LED HDTV would be the likely replacement, though that feels small by today’s standards. The 40”-43” is the next jump up in size.

While that’s considered normal for a ‘small’ TV today (seriously), you’ve got to make sure it fits in the bedroom space. Plus, you’ll likely need to buy a new TV stand.

Why…?

HDTV Legs Require More Surface Space
Well, somewhere over the last few years, TV manufacturers have seemingly switched from the center-stand mount design to upside-down V-shaped legs near each screen edge. This design change effectively increases the surface area required for any HDTV to sit on….

My father’s existing TV stand is only 29” wide. That would barely cut it for a 32” HDTV, let alone anything larger…

And even if you could balance your new HDTV onto an old stand, you’d have to worry about the risk of accidentally bumping the TV, causing one of its legs to slip off the stand… and then crash!

Yep, that could easily happen, now that HDTVs weigh so much less than their analog ancestors.

So, you’re probably going to have to also consider a new furniture solution…

Don’t Need to Go with 4K Picture Quality
I centered my research on a 40”-43” screen size for my dad. All I wanted was a straightforward, non-smart, non-4K, easy-to-use model that would quickly connect to my father’s cable box.

And let me simply say… you can’t buy that TV anymore.

Most TVs out there today come with a 4K resolution. But for a smaller screen size, you really don’t need all of those pixels. 1080p ‘full HD’ is just fine. That’s already a huge jump in quality compared to my dad’s analog dinosaur.

I’m sure any number of you would say you can see the 4K difference on a 43” screen.
But do you have the eyes of an 86-year-old?
(I’m just working the right solution for my particular user!)

If Possible, Avoid Smart TVs
Most TVs today are smart TVs with Wi-Fi and on-screen apps containing all of those marvelous and now-standard streaming options. But quite honestly, I didn’t really want to introduce my dad to the streaming world. He’s quite happy with how he used his old TV.

And more importantly, I don’t think he needs the added complexity, because that will just create more calls to… you guessed it… the IT Guy!

Not that I don’t enjoy talking with my dad on the phone. But there’s only so much I can remotely do to help him with his tech.

Yes, I do try to get into New York City to visit him every week. But he’s the kind of octogenarian who needs more immediate solutions to his tech challenges.
(We’ll just say he’s a little impatient.)

Would you like me to tell you about the time when my father’s iPhone’s ringer volume was turned down all of the way? …or the day my dad’s
iPhone wouldn’t charge anymore?
(Don’t get me started.)

But get this…

I actually couldn’t find a non-smart TV made by a manufacturer I trusted.
(Spoiler alert: My dad ended up getting a smart TV after all!)

Look for Absurdly Low Prices
Okay.. so I zeroed in on the market for 40”-43” Full HD (1080) televisions, which were also inevitably ‘smart.’ And I was shocked at how inexpensive TVs have become in this ‘smaller’ size category.

Sure, you can spend $650 on Samsung’s well regarded Q60 Series 43” 4K QLED TV.
($648 on Amazon Prime)

But for what we’ve been talking about, the price point is less than half of that. Here are two great choices I found…

Breaking the $200 Barrier
Vizio D-Series 40” Class Full HD Smart LED TV (D40F-G9)

Breaking the $300 Barrier
Samsung 5 Series N5300 43” Class HDR Full HD Smart LED TV

Really.

Both Samsung and Vizio have strong reputations for TVs although Samsung often sets the gold standard. Vizio is usually seen as a lower-cost alternative with good value.

But I especially liked the 40” Vizio for its smaller size. Most manufacturers are now only putting out 43” models in this range.
(Remember, I don’t want my dad’s new TV to overwhelm his bedroom.)

So I went with the Vizio.
Click.

Keep It Simple
If you’d like, here are my consolidated shopping notes:

  • 40”-43” screen size
  • Full 1080p HD, but not 4K
  • Smart functionality is unavoidable
  • $200-$300 price point
  • Vizio or Samsung are good TV brands
  • Don’t forget you’ll need a wider TV stand to fit the LED feet

Ultimately, I think less is more when buying technology for the elderly. Keep it simple… Spending twice as much doesn’t necessarily mean a better experience.

My father loves his new television… His first words were, “It’s much brighter!”
(Mission accomplished.)

No, he hasn’t figured out there’s a ‘smart’ interface with it yet. But he will…

And yes, now there will be the inevitable training and trouble-shooting calls
in my future!
(Easy problems for #AdultChildofAgingParent)

Ode to Fathers and Technology

As I ponder my existence as a dad experiencing the eternal struggle to retain tech harmony at home, I am inspired to write yet another poem. (cough) Here we go…

Fathers and Technology

Every day is a fight
To keep my tech working right
And yesterday’s solution
Can create more confusion

In my head I can’t recall
My smart home laughs at my gall
To think I am in control
I feel like a lump of coal

Tech changes so quickly now
My gear often just says ciao!
Today what I really want
Is just one day with détente

T-800 mows my lawn
HAL serves veal parmesan
It’s silly to think they can
When you feel like a madman

But each morning holds the key
My son is my nominee
At nine he is the future
Born to tech he is super

I see what really matters
Fatherhood fills the chapters
Being a dad is the gift
Who cares our tech is adrift?

Happy Father’s Day to all
Stand up for your curtain call
Take a photo if you can
If not, enjoy as caveman

Are you still here?
(Remarkable)

All right then…
For your consideration, please click through to read some of my previous attempts at ‘poetry.’

Enjoy!

At Home with Nature

If you’re wondering what’s happened to my weekly musings about the challenges of technology, you should first consider my weekend experience in ‘the wild’… as a father.

I’ve just returned from an overnight Cub Scout camping trip in Redding, Connecticut with my nine-year-old son. Well, let me tell you, it was almost a perfect experience, including a three-mile hike in the woods and great weather.
(Though it was slightly marred by a chorus of snorers interrupting my sleep at 4am. My son power-slept through.)

Overall, he had a blast… learned some life skills and enjoyed camping with his daddy.

For me, it was a top ten weekend as a father…
Mostly because it was uninterrupted quality time spent with my son.

But I think there was something else going on… inside of me.

Barrett as a Boy
I’m a born and bred New Yorker who grew up in Manhattan in the 1970’s. I was a city boy who as a kid never learned to pitch a tent… let alone sleep in one (except for one time in high school).

Sure, I went to sleepaway camp…so I did spend some time in the great outdoors.
But I never had to learn self-reliance out there.

And as I grew up, I gravitated to the lure of technology rather than the life of a Boy Scout.

Barrett as a Man
And though I eventually moved to the suburbs as an adult and figured out how to mow a lawn and push a snow blower, I wouldn’t exactly say I learned to be at home with nature… beyond going on a full-day hike.

Yes, in fact, my family and I have done a few 4,000 footers in New Hampshire over the past couple of years, though I would attribute the spirit that led to those accomplishments to my better half…

Barrett as a Father
My wife loves to camp and really introduced me to the camping experience. Over the past few years, we’ve brought our son along, and he’s really enjoyed it. So, I think it would be fair to say we’re a camping family.

But this time, it was just my son and me camping with the Cub Scouts…

Barrett Pitches His Tent
I must admit, I was worried that I wouldn’t remember how to put up our REI Kingdom 4 tent.

No, I didn’t want to take the time to do a test run in our back yard. Yes, I did Google it and found a few videos that helped me to remember the order of constructing the exoskeleton.

The trick is to put the middle pole in first through the material, and then you attach the two poles with ‘arms’ that connect together on top of the middle pole. And then you pitch the tent.

The fact that I just wrote this down without cheating is a good indicator of how I performed in the field…

I successfully pitched my Kingdom 4 tent… all by myself. I looked like I knew what I was doing, and I even had the brain space to invite my son into the construction process.

To be honest… for this city kid, it was a big moment. And perhaps more importantly, I enjoyed doing it… much like I enjoy figuring out a tech problem like how to install a new WiFi system in our house.

I know I’ve talked about my camping adventures before, but only as it relates to bringing along technology to maintain a tether to the rest of my tech-infused life.

This time was different. This joy connected to something at my core that I don’t usually pay attention to…

Barrett Becomes Slightly More Self Aware
I would say only a small percentage of us are truly at home with nature. Sure, many may enjoy long walks in the woods or weekend camping in a beautiful location. But that’s still somewhat of a ‘protected’ experience. Yes, it could hail out there or a big bear could walk along, but you normally expect to make it out of your ‘wilderness’ experience in one piece.

That’s not quite the same as being teleported into the wild with no civilization in reach for days. Yes, some could handle that just fine. And I think the rest of us probably covet that lost skill deep down, even though we don’t acknowledge it.

Today, much of the world relies on technology to keep a roof over our heads and food on our tables. And in so many ways, technology ‘enhances’ our experience as we go about our lives. It can feel like a natural extension that supports our individual happiness.

But I realized during my camping weekend that my focus has been somewhat askew.

Previously, I was always the guy with the solar panels to charge up your portable battery. Or the one with an extra battery to spare. I made sure I could maintain an extension of civilization through technology.

But I could never quite enjoy just letting it all go…

Barrett Continues on His Journey
Yes, this time I still brought along my tech to our Cub Scout camping trip.
(What? You thought this was all about me living for a weekend off of the grid? Hardly…)

But the fact that I stuck the landing on building our tent and enjoyed doing it is what really tickled me this time around. That’s what I remember…
(Not how many bars of power I was able to maintain)

And that’s a new behavior.

No, I’m not at home with nature.
Not really.
Not yet.

But I’m getting more comfortable…

#progress